Silence is survival. Don’t make a sound. Those who have survived live by one rule: never make a sound
This is what it feels like sometimes being a Christ-follower in my city. If you make noise, you’re in deep trouble. If you decide to have the worldview that God is the Creator, Sustainer, Redeemer and Restorer of creation; and if you decide to believe that God is a relational God whose being and actions are characterized by love, communication and peace; and if you verbalize your convictions because you believe the Bible is God’s inspired Word to be obeyed as a rule of faith and living, then you might just awaken the anger of those who don’t agree with you. And so, many Christ-followers, and many churches, choose to live in silence in order to survive.
But the John Krasinski box-office thriller is not just about fear of monsters and how to avoid extinction. It’s about life. It’s about a family’s struggle to not just survive, but to grow. And so this blog is not just about the challenge of being a Christ-follower in my City, but it’s about life, growth and an understanding that, much like Regan’s hearing aids, the church already possesses what it needs to overcome any obstacle.
Let me say clearly that I do not blame my City for the woes of the Church. We brought that on ourselves. A scene from my favorite movie The Mission illustrates my point. At the end of the movie, after all the death and destruction “in the name of God,” Hontar says “We must work in the world, your eminence. The world is thus.” To which Altamirano replied, “No, Senor Hontar. Thus we have made the world…thus I have made it.” If the Church in my City wants to privilege of being heard again, and being respected, it will have to earn it by speaking the truth in love with compassion, conviction and courage.
So, about the noise we make. We have to learn how to make noise, and what to make noise about, otherwise we will never survive. Most of the time the noise of what we often say is not worth being heard. Like Beau, we will be victims of irresponsible noise-making (kind of like the October street-preachers in my City). There are definitely right and wrongs ways to make noise.
Wrong way – without respect, without compassion, without intelligence Wrong way – if you are going to be offended when people voice their disagreement with you; or if you are unable to dialogue without getting angry or defensive Wrong way – if you think you are right 100% of the time; or if you are unable admit that you might be wrong Wrong way – through social media, posting “I love Jesus” on Facebook is not going to convince anyone about the truth of the Gospel Right way – face to face, a real relationship based on respect and honesty Right way – humility, honesty and intelligence Right way – don’t expect a post-Christian society to agree with you if you’re going to offer up Christian values
What is our message? And why are we so scared to share it publicly? Our message, ironically enough, is all the stuff people are hungry for: love, peace, justice, community, family, generosity, compassion, inclusion, healing, hope, relevance, worth, forgiveness, safety, creativity, invention, learning, equality, purpose for this life and meaning for the after-life. Who doesn’t want that? We can engage science, the arts, humanitarianism, politics, economics, religion, sports and education with the Good News contained in the Bible – IF we do it with openness, integrity, intelligence and humility. There’s no reason we should be quiet about what we believe, even in the market place of today’s culture.
If our message is so positive, then why are some people so turned off by it? Why are people so against it? Why does the Church in my City live in silence in order to survive? First, because we have not presented our message in meaningful, loving, intelligent, creative ways. Second, we have corrupted the pure message of the Gospel with our own ideas. One example is how we present salvation as simply a way to “avoid the hell that God will send us to because He’s very angry with us.” The truth is that salvation is about being restored to true humanity so that we can fulfill God’s loving purpose for us here on earth. Third, the Bible has a definite morality that comes with it. To be precise, the Bible speaks of righteousness and sin. Sin is fun, sin is enjoyable. However, sin is also destructive to individuals and society and therefore God empowers us to conquer our sins with the power that He gives us through Christ. When confronted with one’s sinfulness (all have sinned and fall short of God’s glory), it’s not comfortable. Everyone gets defensive to some point when told they are doing something wrong. And this takes me full circle: instead of the Church’s noise focusing on what people are doing wrong, why can’t we focus on what people are doing right? It is GOOD NEWS after all.
I know that when some people in my City read this blog they will think that I am discriminating, hating and part of the problem. Because I believe that gender is a gift that God gives each person and not something to be chosen, let alone left up to a child to decide, I will be criticized. But that’s ok. I still choose not to live in silence. And because I believe that God’s ideal for marriage is a man and woman, I will be criticized. But that’s ok, I won’t let it silence my witness to my loving God. And because I believe that there is a real being called satan, and real things called demons, and because I believe they (not God) are the real reason behind all the pain and suffering in this world, I know that I will be shunned by some in my City. But that’s ok, I still decide not to live in silence. Why? Because my faith is not defined by how it disagrees with modern pop culture, but it is defined by a loving God who is still working in people’s lives. My faith is defined by its object: Jesus Christ. Jesus is a bridge builder, a life giver, a problem solver, a peace maker, a game changer. He restores broken things and finds beauty in everything and everyone. That’s why the Church needs to have a voice and not live in silence.
So if you’re out there and you feel like you have to live in a quiet place because of your faith in God, let me encourage you to have a voice. yes, we will be seen as narrow-minded. Our message will not be understood, it may not even be appreciated. We will be criticized, insulted and persecuted. There’s nothing we can do about that. Let’s still choose to live out loud, to love everyone, to be great neighbors, to pray for our City, to help the many good causes our City strives for, to speak intelligently to contemporary issues and to devote ourselves to making the Name of Jesus famous for all the right reasons.
Just as Lee and Evelyn had a tough choice to make when they found out they were pregnant, so they Church has a tough decision to make. And just as they chose to do their best to create life, despite the dangers a crying baby would bring to the family, so every Christ follower needs to do their best to create life in our City. We have to break out of our fear to make noise. Let’s just be faithful and courageous, and see what God can do. Silence is not survival.
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